Hagar -> God is Just and Loving
Hagar means 'stranger'.
Hagar came from Egypt, and was never fully accepted into the tribal group. (woh, cocok banget dengan ceritanya nanti.. ckckk)
Sarah may have been a shortened version of Ummu-sarra, which means 'the great mother is queen'.
Abraham means 'ancestor of many people'.
Ishmael means ‘God hears’. Twice when Hagar is abandoned by others, God hears her and helps her. (nama anaknya jg gw baru tw and it really show's me how amazing God is)
At the beginning of the story of Hagar, Sarah and Abraham are called Sarai andAbram; later in the story, God makes a promise to them, a covenant, and their names change to Sarah and Abraham. To minimize confusion, I have used 'Sarah' and 'Abraham' throughout.
What the story is about
The story of Hagar is closely bound up with Sarah' story, but is important in its own right because it tells of a woman's courage and endurance. It is also significant because it explains the ancestral background of the Arab peoples, who are called Ishmaelites in the Bible.
The story contains two central episodes:
1 The conception and birth of Hagar's son Ishmael(Genesis 16:1-16). Hagar, the Egyptian slave of Sarah, was made pregnant by Abraham, the husband of Sarah. While she was pregnant, God promised that her child would be the ancestor of a great nation.
2 The expulsion of Hagar and Ishmael (Genesis 21:1-21). Hagar and Sarah quarreled, and eventually Hagar and her son Ishmael left the Hebrews.
Hagar represents women in the Bible who are excluded or despised by the people around them. This might happen because they are
1. childless, in a society that valued mothers (Sarah)
2. a slave in a hierarchical society (Hagar)
3. pregnant and unmarried in a society that valued virginity in unmarried girls (a later example is Mary of Nazareth)
ini tambahan dari gw sendiri :P
4. widow ato janda, contohnya Naomi: karena most Israeli percaya seorang janda itu adalah orang yang dikutuk Tuhan karena suaminya meninggal ato ceraiin dia. BUT, Tuhan sendiri mengasihi para widowers ini, He knows gimana mereka akan diperlakukan sehingga banyak hukum yang dibuat untuk ngelindungi mereka2 ini.. :) Example: Exodus 22:22 Ye shall not afflict any widow, or fatherless child.
5. foreigners (dalam hal ini bukan bangsa Yahudi) contohnya Ruth, cwe Moab: bangsa Israel percaya bahwa mereka adalah bangsa yang terpilih, yg spesial, dan untuk seorang cwe asing menikah dgn orang Israel, keluarganya itu bakal rada dijauhin karena mereka ga suka 'israel'nya mereka ternoda gitu.. --' other ways to 'justify' is dat Tuhan sendiri nyuruh bangsa Israel untuk ga nikah sama bangsa lain :)
Hagar: victim? or upwardly mobile?
Read Genesis 16:1-16
The story of Hagar took place during the late Bronze Age between 2000 and 1550BC, corresponding to the Middle Kingdom period in Egyptian history. (Woh, gw selalu amazed kalo tahu latar belakang waktu sebuah cerita :P it make it more realistic.. haha..)
Hagar was an Egyptian girl who was a slave in the household of Sarah, a Hebrew princess. Sarah may have acquired Hagar as part of the generous bride-price paid to her husband Abraham by Pharaoh in Egypt (this story is in Genesis 12:10-20).
It was an accepted practice at the time to give servants and slaves as part of the dowry of a wealthy young woman. If Hagar was a gift from Pharaoh, she was probably an accomplished servant with valuable skills. Becoming the servant of a nomadic tribeswoman may have been a step down socially for her. (Nah yang ini new information banget buat gw, ternyata Hagar ini walau budak tapi pinter juga toh or at least skillful lah.. hahahha)
Hagar was always disadvantaged among the Hebrew women because she was a foreigner and a slave. This was ironic, since she came from a land that was socially and politically advanced and possessed cities, temples and elaborate burial sites. Egypt had a complex economic system that regulated trade and commerce throughout its empire, and its theology and religion were sophisticated and well ordered. Hagar must have found the living conditions of the Hebrews quite primitive by comparison. (Ini juga gw baru sadar have to be put into consideration of this story.. ckckck...)
It seems that Hagar's new owner Sarah could not conceive a child, which was after all the primary function of a tribal leader's wife. (buset dah, 'function') In her own eyes and in the estimation of the tribe she was a failure, and her barren state was a constant torment. She decided to offer her slave Hagar to Abraham as a surrogate. Hagar would bear the child and look after it, but it would belong to Sarah and be accepted as the child of Sarah and Abraham.
To modern people, the idea of giving another woman to your husband to bear a child seems strange and brutal, but in ancient Near Eastern family law the practice was common and acceptable.
Was Hagar consulted in the matter? There is no information on this. Ancient people assumed she would leap at the opportunity. For a woman in Hagar's position, the prospect of becoming pregnant to the leader of the clan was an honor, and would result in a dramatic rise in her social status. No longer a slave, she would become an important concubine or secondary wife, definitely a step up in the world. Eventually, she might be the mother of the tribe's leader, which would make her Queen Bee of the tribe. (sebelumnya, gw pikir dibuat hamil itu kasihan amat, sekarang gw baru 'ngeh' kalo itu sebuah 'kesempatan'.. ckckckck...)
'Sarah, Abraham's wife, took Hagar the Egyptian, her slave-girl, and gave her to her husband Abram as a wife. He went in to Hagar, and she conceived; and when she saw that she had conceived, she looked with contempt on her mistress.'
Read Genesis 16:1-6.
Something went wrong between Hagar and Sarah after Hagar became pregnant. Sarah was daily confronted by the other woman's success at conceiving a child, and believed that Hagar no longer gave her the deference she deserved. For her part, Hagar may have enjoyed being treated with respect for the first time in her life, and did not bother to hide her pleasure. (wah2, perang antar perempuan, I think this is the reason why Tuhan ga suggest poligami.. :P)
The women fell out, and Sarah berated Abraham for what had happened. It was all his fault, she said. Abraham pointed out, quite rightly, that it was not in his power to do anything, since Sarah was still in charge of the women of the tribe, and Hagar was under her jurisdiction, not his. This gives us some inkling of the property rights and social power of the woman who led the tribe. She, not her husband, ruled the other tribal women and was responsible for them. (ini juga new info abis dah buat gw, ternyata seorang istri tribe leader jg nge-handle orang2, alias para cwe2nya.. weleh2..)
In response to Abraham's words, Sarah 'humbled' Hagar - (gw cari arti kata 'humbled' itu adalah merendahkan) the narrator ironically uses the same word that described the treatment of Hebrew slaves in Egypt at the time of Moses. Sarah humbled an Egyptian, as the Egyptians would one day humble Sarah’s descendants. (wah keadilan itu bener2 ada.. ckckkck) What this 'humbling' entailed we do not know, but it was enough to drive Hagar away, fleeing from the relative safety of the tribe out into the bleak landscape. Pregnant as she was she headed south, in a desperate attempt to get back to her lost home and family in Egypt.
'The angel of the LORD found her by a spring of water in the wilderness, the spring on the way to Shur. And he said 'Hagar, slave-girl of Sarah, where have you come from and where are you going?' She said 'I am running away from my mistress Sarah'.'
Read Genesis 16:7-16.
She followed the road to Shur, which was one of the trade routes passing through the Sinai peninsula. Alone and unaided, it was a heroic effort and a tribute to her tenacity that she got as far as she did. The country is fearsome: eroded hills like bare bones in the arid landscape, the earth tormented by constant wind. (gw salut sm cwe zaman itu, dah hamil, masih kuat jalan jauh.. ckckck..)
Despite this, Hagar very nearly made it to Egypt, as the map above shows. But eventually, exhausted, she stopped at a spring of water in the wilderness of Shur. At this moment, an 'angel' spoke to her, telling her to return to Sarah and have her baby among the Hebrews. It would be a special child, a child with a great future. So she retraced her steps and returned to the tribe, and to Sarah.
'The angel of the Lord' was a device used by the biblical writers to show that a human being had received a message from God. What the word 'angel' meant exactly is an open question. In modern terms we would probably say that a deep conviction of purpose settled on the person involved, guiding them towards a particular course of action. Angels are traditionally portrayed as winged (they carry a message) and genderless (they are spirits without bodies).
Hagar was able to return to Sarah, because she now had a purpose in life:
1. to bear a child who had an important destiny
2. to rear that child who would have descendants without number.
Sarah's son Isaac would be born some fourteen years later. But until then, Hagar's son Ishmael was Abraham’s son and heir, and Hagar's status in the clan or group was solidly established.
Hagar and Ishmael expelled
Read Genesis 21:1-21
Despite Hagar's return, the rivalry between the two women was unresolved. Later, the birth of Sarah's son Isaac (Genesis 21:1-7) upset the balance of power, and the problem resurfaced. This situation was not uncommon in societies that practised polygamy. The Old Testament recognized the positions of 'loved wife' and 'disliked wife', and there were specific laws about the inheritance due to the children of both (Deuteronomy 21:15-17). (ini bener2 new things for me, Tuhan smp buat hukum se-spesifik itu buat urusan2 bangsa Israel.. 'loved' wife and ' dislike wife'.. ckckck)
You might read 1 Samuel 1:1-7 for the story of the relationship between Hannah, the beloved but childless wife, and Peninnah, the less loved but fertile wife, both married to Elkanah. Their story echoed the situation that existed between Hagar and Sarah.
For fourteen years Ishmael was seen as the future heir of Abraham. He and Hagar were accustomed to being treated with respect. But when Sarah had her own son, everything changed. The question was, who would be Abraham's heir: the first-born son, or the son of the principal wife? This was a question that would surface continually to plague Israel throughout its history. (ga heran tuh hukum di Deuteronomy 21:15-17 dibuat.. ckckckck)
Sarah had no doubt about the matter. She saw Ishmael as a threat to her son, and the old enmity between the two women reappeared - now even more savage than it had been before. One telling detail is the way that Sarah never speaks directly to Hagar or says her name - never once in the whole story. (wah ini gw jujur ga notice sm sekali.. weleh2..)
'The child grew and was weaned; and Abraham made a great feast on the day that Isaac was weaned. But Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, whom she had born to Abraham, playing with her son Isaac. So she said to Abraham 'Cast out this slave woman with her son; for the son of this slave woman shall not inherit along with my son Isaac'.
Read Genesis 21:8-14.
We do not know the details of the bitter power struggle between the two women, but we do know that Hagar lost. Neither of the women had ever trusted or liked each other, but now Sarah had a murderous hatred for Hagar, and actively sought her death. In a climactic scene, Sarah insisted that Hagar and Ishmael be sent away from the tribe. (buset dah, cwe2 kalo bertengkar serem juge yah, asli gw baca ini dalam otak gw yg terbayang2 itu adenga ala sinetron gitu.. hahahah..)
Abraham was uneasy about expelling Hagar and Ishmael into the heat of the open desert, since they had virtually no chance of survival. He argued against it. But Sarah's power over him was still so strong that she could make him do it. He gave Hagar a gift of bread, the food staple, and a skin of water, a symbol of life - not so much for eating and drinking, but as a signal to the tribe that she remained under his protection, despite her expulsion from the tribe. It was a warning to Sarah's servants that they might not kill Hagar when she was out of sight of Abraham. (wow, new info lagi buat gw, tp tetep aje gw kasihan sm Hagar.. ckckck)
Alone in the desert, Hagar and Ishmael soon used up their tiny supply of water. Hagar searched desperately for more but found none, and saw her son begin to die of thirst. There was nothing she could do to save him except place him in the shade of an overhanging bush and wait.
When the water in the skin was gone, she cast the child under one of the bushes. Then she went and sat a good way off for she said 'Do not let me look on the death of the child'.
Read Genesis 21:15-21.
In what she believed were the last moments of her life, she lifted up her voice and called to God for help. God heard her, and heard the weak voice of her dying son. Then her eyes were opened, and she saw something she had missed before: a well of fresh water. ( I think disini si Hagar jatuh cinta sm Tuhan Israel dan dah ga liatin lagi Allah2 mesirnya dia :P) She refilled the skin that Abraham had given her with water and took it to her son, gently coaxing the water through his lips. Then she drank the water herself. (sungguh ibu yang baik yah? tetep prioritasin anaknya dulu baru dirinya sendiri, after all the politics between the her dan sarah, gw kagum akan karakter Hagar yang ini where dia sangat mengasihi anaknya)
She and her son continued on their journey, knowing they had only God and themselves to rely on. They spurned life in a town but lived in the wilderness of Paran instead, where the boy grew to manhood. When it came time for Ishmael to marry, Hagar took good care to find him a wife from her own people, not from the people of his father.
Summary
Hagar was never fully accepted into the Hebrew group despite being the mother of Abraham's child. In the end she was rejected completely, and expelled. But she was protected by God against the hatred of Sarah, and in the end lived as a free woman, no longer a slave. (eke baru 'ngeh' kalo ending cerita Hagar itu happy ending.. nyahahahaha... lupa kalo dia itu awalnya budak, namun sekarang dia itu dah bebas! Allah bener2 adil dan penyayang!)
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Amazing ga sih? gw bener2 dapat byk new information, byk dibukain, wawasan gw diperluas.. hahaha.. God is trully JUST and LOVING and I get it more and more after reading about Hagar :)
